Pain of Work Case Study
Scene from a 6 year long polyamorous relationship:
25 year old woman, 26 year old man. 25 year old has lost interest in sex with her “primary” partner and avoids sex with him. 26 year old has not lost interest at all. If they do not have sex for more than one week the 26 year old throws tantrums, says his mental health will decline if the 25 year old does not have sex with him, and says if they don’t do it he doesn’t feel “loved”. Aproximately once a week for 4 years she lets him have sex with her as a chore. His hand is like a meaty jackhammer when he fingers her.